I am 52-years-old and I have been dating a man for about a year. He is really kind and gentle and we get on really well. I feel completely at ease with him, which is refreshing as I haven’t felt like this for a while. He really does make me happy, however I get the feeling deep down that I’m not madly in love, either. I’ve been worrying about it a lot as I don’t feel that we are actually connected at a soul level. Does this matter?
Should I stay or should I go? RADLEIGH SAYS: You have hit upon a question that I think many, many people can relate to. Of course, every person’s answer to that question will be different. When I ask your angels about whether you should continue to pursue this relationship, they say that at first the relationship was more exciting to you than it is now. You had high hopes, but now your perception has changed, leaving you feeling as though the whole thing is very lacklustre.
Your angels say that you’re a bit too young to be settling (in case you haven’t heard, 52 is the new 30!). They would like you to try to visualise your life without this man. How do you feel? If the answer to the question is a sort of heartbreak, then perhaps you are more in love than you realise you just haven’t recognised it yet. If the answer is fairly neutral then it’s definitely time to open to other possibilities. You will know in your heart what is right.‚